The Meaning and Value of Humor: An Interview with Marilyn Simon Rothstein

After all, an entire chapter takes place in a Chinese restaurant.  My humor is based on my upbringing as a second generation American Jewish girl –even if what I am describing could happen to anyone. When I come up with something funny, I hone it. Here’s a story from Lift And Separate. “I wasn’t feeling well so I came home early middle of a school day, from my office. I walked into my family room and found my fourteen-year-old daughter with a boy. They were on the couch in the front of the fireplace, wearing matching outfits—they both had nothing on. His name was Mother’s Hell.

YZM: Do you think women’s humor has changed over the years: is it less self-deprecating?

MSR: I do not think we are less self-deprecating. Self-deprecation is key to Jewish humor. I love to make fun of myself—and there is so much to work with. 

YZM: How about the funny/pretty split?  Can a woman be considered both?

MSR: Yes! Look at me. I am funny and I am absolutely gorgeous.

YZM: Why do we need humor, and women’s humor, more than ever right now?

MSR:  We need it as much as ever. To me, humor is survival. Humor gets us through the tough times. My protagonist, Marcy Hammer is a Jewish woman who lives in Connecticut and is married to Harvey the Bra King. Harvey leaves Marcy after thirty-three years of marriage for a 32DDD, a model at his brassiere empire. In Husbands And Other Sharp Objects, Marcy must plan her daughter’s wedding while navigating the demise of her own marriage.  Who wouldn’t need humor to get through that?

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