Brock Turner, Donald Trump, Omar Mateen: Our Deepest Spiritual Challenges
We, people of faith, need to stand upstream today, and tomorrow, and the next day, and make manifest the sacred power of love and connection. I don’t want to talk about Jewish peoplehood, education, philanthropy, engagement, the “unaffiliateds,” any of it—unless it is in the service of making manifest the sacred power of love and connection. Our teachings, traditions, and rituals are full of too much wisdom and resilience, and are too desperately needed in this moment, for anything less.
On Sunday morning, a small group of friends, queer and straight, gathered at the mikveh, the Jewish ritual bath used for lifecycle transitions, to honor Amelia and her upcoming wedding to her partner, Lucy. Amelia’s friends showered her with blessing after blessing about what she has meant to them, the gifts that they appreciate in her that she doesn’t recognize in herself, and their hopes for her in her marriage. They cried, they held hands, they allowed truth and vulnerability to open their hearts to gratitude. Amelia immersed in the warm waters of the mikveh, and emerged renewed, transformed, with a profound sense of self-worth. She shared that she had been lied to for years about the circumstances of her birth, and her immersion, a re-birth of sorts, served to heal a deep wound caused by family secrets. Before we left, I wrapped Amelia and her friends in a tallis, a prayer shawl, and sang the ancient Hebrew blessing for God’s protection to cover her and God’s light to shine on her in this transition.
The healing moments we shared together at the mikveh, moments overflowing with the sacred power of love and connection, rippled out into the queer communities of Amelia and her friends on Sunday afternoon.
Against hate, let us model peace in our intimate and public relationships so that our children will deeply understand peace. Against defensiveness and the urge to build walls, let us experience openness and vulnerability in our Jewish communities so that we can learn how to cultivate those experiences for our wider world.
Sometime in the middle of the night on Saturday, as shots were ringing out in Orlando, the Jewish people stood at the base of the mountain and promised God that we would be God’s goy kadosh, holy nation. May we be up to this crucial task.
Rabbi Sara Luria is the founder and executive director of ImmerseNYC: A Community Mikveh Project because powerful ritual experiences that connect us more deeply to ourselves, our communities, our histories, and that which is greater than all of us are a vital part of the healing needed in our world today.
