Yes She Can

“One agent told me that I couldn’t be a singer if I looked Jewish, so I had a nose job. Another told me that I couldn’t perform if I had a Jewish name, so I became D’yan Forest, and still another told me that I couldn’t be a comedian because I wasn’t ugly. He said that only ugly women became comics. I wish I’d been born 50 years later. There were so many limitations on young girls when I was growing up. I hated being told, ‘no, girls don’t do that.’ I hated having to wait for boys to call me. Then, when I was a teenager, in 1950 or 1951, I asked my parents for a guitar. They got me a ukulele instead because they thought that guitars were only for boys.”
Eleanor J. Bader, from The Lilith Blog, March 9, 2016.